Wannabe Saints

Humility and the Ego

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, Fr. Keith Romke joins us for a fun, deep and insightful conversation on the virtue of humility. We talk about the inner battle between the Theo and ego drama and how many people misunderstand humility as weakness or self-deprecation.
Fr. Romke reframes humility as knowing your true identity in God: that you are created in His image, fully loved, and nothing you do can earn or erase that love. We also dive into the importance of silence in prayer and the challenge to “show up and shut up” so God can speak.
Resources & Links:🔗 Fr. Romke’s Website📘 I Believe in Love by Fr. Jean d’Elbée📘 Spiritual Survival in the Modern World by Dr. Andrew Swafford
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Four Kinds of Respect, One Virtue

In this episode on the virtue of respect- We unpack four different types of respect—because it’s not a one-size-fits-all virtue. We explore:
    •    General Respect for every person
    •    Respect of Position for roles of authority
    •    Respect for God 
    •    Earned Respect through trust and admiration
We reflect on how earned respect is often the easiest to give—because it’s shown to those we admire, trust, and love. But it’s also the type of respect that can hurt us the most when that trust is broken.
We also discuss how respect evolves, especially in our relationships with parents—what it looks like to honor them as adults. Drawing from the Catechism of the Catholic Church, we consider our call to respect all those in authority: parents, grandparents, teachers, bosses, and more. Finally, we talk about reverence and how we can grow in our awe and love for God.
 
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Link to Article We Read- From Focus On The Family
 

Interview with Cecilia Brennan: A Life Lived with Fortitude

In this episode of, Wannabe Saints, we switched things up for the virtue of fortitude. We interviewed Jordyn’s friend, Cecilia Brennan. Her life is a living example of the gift and virtue of fortidue, always persevering in faith and overcoming all obstacles, growing stronger and stronger each time. From growing up without her mom, to her husband being deployed to Japan two moths after they got married and starting her own company at the same time, to having to raise their daughter alone for the first 6 months. Despite all the trials she has been able to see Gods hand and the blessings in it all. “The purpose of life isn’t to find happiness, it is to find peace.” 
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Links to Cecilia's Instagram and Podcast:
Cecilia's Instagram
What In The Dang Heck
What In The Dang Heck Instagram 

Mercy & Compassion

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, we dive deep into the powerful connection between compassion and mercy. We explore how true mercy can’t exist without compassion—and how compassion naturally moves us to acts of mercy. From the corporal and spiritual works of mercy to the challenge of bearing wrongs patiently, we reflect on how these virtues call us to love others even when it's hard. We also talk about what it means to forgive from the heart, and how real forgiveness isn’t something we can do on our own—it’s only possible through the grace and help of the Holy Spirit.
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Living With Integrity

Integrity is more than just being honest and trustworthy—it’s about living in a way that takes your values and turns them into virtues. In this episode of Wannabe Saints, we talk about what it really means to be a person of integrity, the virtues that it requires, and why it’s not just about doing the right thing when people are watching, but who you are at your core.
Listen in as we break down what it takes to be a person of integrity and challenge ourselves to live more authentically.
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Forgiveness & Confession with Fr. Ditomo

In this episode—Forgiveness & Confession—of Wannabe Saints, we welcome special guest Father Ditomo to dive into forgiveness and confession. We talk about the difference between mercy and forgiveness, why confession is key to spiritual growth, and where it’s found in Scripture. Plus, we discuss how confession can be a powerful source of psychological healing. Don’t forget to check out our show notes for timestamps on all the key topics in this insightful 2.5-hour conversation!
 
Listen to Father’s Podcast here:
The Grace Filled Life
 
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Episode Time Stamps:
0:04:51 – Mercy vs. Compassion
20:22 – If someone confessed murder, can the priest tell them to turn themselves in?
22:20 – Confession: The Genius Sacrament
24:38 – Difference Between Grace and Mercy
27:52 – Where Is Confession in the Bible?
33:12 – Why Confess Sins to a Priest?
39:33 – Causing an Offense Against Someone and Going to Them Before Confession
40:52 – Mortal vs. Venial
43:33 – Free Will in Mortal Sin?
46:39 – Is Suicide Grave Matter?
49:49 – Sexual Sin
55:53 – Why Does It Feel Like You Fall Harder into Sin After Going to Confession?
1:02:47 – When You Forget Sins in Confession but Remember After, Have They Been Forgiven?
1:04:07 – How Specific Do You Need to Be in Confession?
1:06:00 – Is the Number of Times Just for Mortal Sin?
1:13:44 – Why Is Frequent Confession a Good Practice Even If It Isn’t a Mortal Sin?
1:16:37 – Praying While in Mortal Sin
1:21:20 – Do You Need to Confess Past Sins as You Further Develop Your Conscience?
1:24:41 – Examination of Life/General Confession
1:27:42 – Should You Write Things Down for Confession?
1:32:47 – Should Everyone Have a Spiritual Director, and How Do You Get One?
1:38:57 – Withholding Forgiveness and Holding Grudges
1:46:21 – Scrupulosity
1:54:27 – Psalm and Prayer to Help With Scrupulosity
1:57:26 – Confessing Behaviors That Are More Weakness Than Sin
1:59:49 – Why Do Priests Give Small Penances?
2:11:11 – Communion Covers Venial Sins—Should You Still Go to Confession Regularly?
2:13:37 – Bad Advice From a Priest or Not in Line With Church Teaching
2:17:00 – If the Priest Messes Up the Prayer of Absolution

Dying to Self: Mortification, Lent, and Growing Closer to God

In this episode, we discuss lent and the virtue of mortification—what it truly means to “put to death” our desires, both the bad and the good ones that may hinder our spiritual growth. Mortification isn’t just about denying ourselves harmful habits, but about surrendering everything, even good things, in order to grow closer to God. By embracing this discipline, we learn to pick up our daily cross and follow Christ more fully. We discuss how mortification can be used as a form of prayer to create grace and by uniting it with Christ, suffering leads us to greater intimacy, with God. Tune in to learn how the practice of mortification relates to lent, can transform your life and deepen your relationship with God.Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at wannabesaintspodcast@gmail.com or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints
Links to things we discussed: 
The Catholic Company Lenten Suggestions.
The Great Adventure Bible
My Daily Bread
Catechism of the Catholic Church, Ascension Edition

Valentine’s Day: A Love That Sacrifices

Valentine’s Day is more than chocolates, flowers, and romance—it’s about a love that gives. In this short reflection, we dive into the true meaning behind Valentine's Day, exploring the sacrificial love of St. Valentine and how he followed the ultimate example of love: Jesus' sacrifice on the cross. As Catholics, we know Valentine’s Day is so much more than what the world tells us. It’s about loving others beyond words—through actions, selflessness, and sacrifice. Let’s rediscover what this day is really about and embrace the deeper, truer love it calls us to. Happy Saint Valentine's Day!
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Gentleness & Meekness

In this episode, we discuss the connection between meekness and gentleness, two virtues often used interchangeably. We address the misconception that meekness means weakness and explain how gentleness is much more than just a soft touch—it’s a mindset and your disposition. We also dive into how meekness and gentleness are linked by a kind of sensitivity—not emotional sensitivity, but a sensitivity to the needs of others and how we anticipate those needs. We look at how these virtues show up in our words, actions, and relationships, and discuss their impact on both ourselves and those around us. 
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Vigilance: The Forgotten Virtue

In this episode, we talk about the forgotten virtue of vigilance and why it’s so important in our lives—whether in our words, actions, thoughts, prayers, or the media we consume. Vigilance means being spiritually alert and aware, especially since the devil loves to deceive us, even through things that seem good. He often hides lies behind things that look harmless.
The big question is, "If Jesus were to come today, am I ready?" Our answer should be "yes," and that means staying alert and prepared at all times.
We use the example of a garden, where weeds naturally grow alongside the good plants. Just like a gardener must remove weeds to protect the garden, we must vigilantly remove the "weeds" in our lives. Vigilance means having custody of our hearts and minds, staying focused on our faith, and being ready for Christ’s return.
Links:
Metanoia Journal
The Catechism of the Catholic Church
Spiritual Survival in the Modern World.
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